Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep. – Romans 12:15

To those who are rejoicing on Mother’s Day, you are also called to weep. 

To those who are weeping on Mother’s Day, you are also called to rejoice. 

Happy mothers, be happy. But don’t forget your sisters who are hurting. Remember to be thankful for what you have and remember that there are many women who are begging for children while you complain about yours on Facebook. Remember that what you have is unmerited and know that you don’t deserve children more than the woman sitting next to you who hasn’t been given them. 

Mourning women, be sad. But do not allow your suffering to keep you from rejoicing with those who rejoice. Search for the grace to be genuinely glad for your sisters who have what you want. We tend to take identity in our sufferings and alienate anyone who hasn’t experienced the exact same things. Don’t do it. Follow the command from Scripture: rejoice with those who rejoice. 

Today I am happy to be cuddling two sweet babies. Today I am sad that I should be cuddling 5. 

Today I am happy that you have precious children to shepherd. 

Today I am sad that death has taken children away from you.  

Today I am sad with you because your womb and your home is empty. 
Today I am glad in the promises of God: 

You will be sorrowful, but your sorrow will turn into joy. …Your hearts will rejoice, and no one will take your joy from you. 

~John 16:20, 22